Power and Autonomy for children:
Young children show us their independence in everyday ways, such as simply choosing who to play with, deciding whether to join a group, negotiating turns, or asserting their preferences. These are foundational experiences of agency. As educators, we can either lean in intentionally, hear them, and support this or unintentionally suppress it by rushing in, overriding their decisions, or managing outcomes too tightly.
Autonomy-supportive teaching means offering guidance without removing choice. It means stepping in when needed, but also stepping back when possible - allowing children to problem solve, express disagreement, and make mistakes safely, knowing that it’s okay!
“If we are continually stepping in to solve our children's problems, not only do we discredit their abilities, we aren’t allowing them the opportunity to try and figure it out alone.” - Sarah, former ECE teacher
When children are given time and space, their learning becomes deeper, and their confidence grows.
But the cost of not honouring children’s autonomy is high. Every child is a precious gift, reminds us that children who lack choice or voice may struggle with self-regulation, emotional safety, and cognitive growth. When we undermine autonomy, we risk undermining wellbeing — and brain development too.